If you ask an average couple all over the globe, they will tell you that their desire is to enjoy a sweet and exciting marriage. While this is so, many desire to enjoy a sweet and exciting marriage but they are not ready or willing to pay the prize for it.
In our society today everything that is of value has a price tag attached to it which includes sweet and exciting marriage. As said, many desire to enjoy their marriage but they are not ready or willing to pay the necessary price for it.
To this end, if enjoyment of a sweet and exciting marriage is your desire, couples must necessarily pay the following prize: in the first instance, the first price you pay is never taking your spouse for granted. It is taking your spouse for granted that is the starting point for crises in some marriage.
Couples who took each for granted are those who can do anything without considering the feelings of their spouse about such actions. As long as such actions make them feel happy, they don’t bother to consider whether their spouse feels hurt or is happy as a result of their actions.
Couples who are ready and willing to pay the prize to enjoy sweet and exciting marriage, they are quick to consider the feelings of their spouse. They restrain themselves from doing certain things or actions if such actions may offend their spouse.
Such couples, their heart desire are to do things pleasing to their spouse and may time suffer hurt themselves in other to please their spouse. Proof that you don’t take your spouse for granted, you must strive to see that your spouse is happy and fulfilled all the time.
Again, couples who wish to enjoy a sweet and exciting marriage, they must pay the price of compromise. Most a time, couples whose marriages collapsed, they cite the reason for the collapse of their marriage as irreconcilable differences.
What on earth do you think that causes irreconcilable differences if not refusal or not willing to pay the prize of compromise? Show me couples that are not willing or refuse to compromise for the sake of love for each other and for their marriage and I will show you marriages that will never last.
In addition, couples who wish to enjoy a sweet and exciting marriage, they must be willing and ready to pay the prize of forgiveness to each other. Because a marriage is a union of two different individuals, there abound to be frictions a time.
When there are frictions, couples must be ready and willing to forgive each other and must not hold grudges or record of wrongdoing done by each other. In other words, couples must never keep a record of evil or wrongdoings done by their spouse.
Finally, couples who wish to enjoy a sweet and exciting marriage, they must be ready to pay the price of sacrifice. Problem with some couples is that they are not willing or ready to sacrifice for their marriage or for the happiness of their spouse.
Couples who refuse or are not ready or willing to sacrifice for their marriage or spouse, their marriages will never last. What proves that you love your spouse is the level of sacrifice you are ready and willing to pay for your marriage and spouse.
One major evidence that couples are ready and willing to sacrifice for each other is their willingness readiness to submit to each other for $exual satisfactions at all time. So ask yourself, “what sacrifice are you ready and willing or not ready and willing to pay for your marriage and spouse?