My Dear, You Too Can Enjoy A Sweet And Exciting Marriage

If you observe the actions and reactions of some couples, you don’t need a prophet to tell you that they are having the best of time in their marriages, they are enjoying sweet and exciting marriages.

However, some other couples, the issue of enjoying sweet and exciting marriages seems to them a mirage. 

Authoritatively I wish to point out that it is possible “you too can move on and start enjoying sweet and exciting marriage”.

Authoritatively I wish to point out that it is possible “you too can move on and start enjoying sweet and exciting marriage”.

Those who are enjoying their marriage to the fullness have adjusted very well to each other and as well knew and applied the secrets that make for a successful marriage.

While as other couples, they are totally ignorant of what it takes to enjoy a sweet and exciting marriage.

In other words, the reason why some are not enjoying their marriage to the fullness is because they don’t know or apply the secrets of what it takes to enjoy sweet and exciting marriage and they are not willing to learn.

Moreover, their major problem is over assumption, they assume to know the secrets while as they don’t adequate knowledge of what it takes to enjoy their marriage.

I said this based on what happened some time ago in in one church where a pastor friend of mine is the pastor. 

The pastor invited me to his office and while I was with him, a very popular and important politician entered his office. 

The pastor wanted to introduce us but we told him that we knew each other. The point is that the man was having a troubled marriage, his marriage was on the verge of a total breakdown.

The man was furious when the pastor asked him to go with me that I can be of help to his marital problems.

He was furious because he wasn’t expecting that I should be the one to help him with his troubled marriage.

At that point, I reminded him that it was a slave girl that gave Naaman the information that led to the recovery of his leprosy. 

I told him that I wish to talk to his wife in his presence. When we got to his residence and less than 15 minutes I started talking to his wife, she burst into tears and got up and came and knelt before his husband pleading for his forgiveness that she was not a good wife to him.

I then turned to the man who was eager to listen to me then and within less than ten minutes when I started talking to him, 

I was able to touch the root causes of their marital problems and as well, he only managed to control his own tears.

I am glad to report that my session with them turned around their marriage and they are now enjoying an exciting marriage.

Of a truth, you may be a huge success in other areas or fields of life endeavors but woeful failure in your home and marriage. You should ask and answer to yourself this simple question:

Since you got married to that man or woman, will you say that both of you are happy and proud that you married him or her?.

Assuming you are allowed to make the choice of who to marry all over again, will you still choose her as your wife? And will you accept him to be your husband?

Now that you are married, you should not assume that you made a mistake in the choice of who you married. 

You may not have made a mistake of the man or woman you married; your problems may have resulted from maladjustment.

In other words, your problems may be that you have not adjusted adequately to each other (two of you are not adequately adjusted to each other).

This is exactly the problem with some couples – “they had maladjustment” they are not enjoying their marriages because they are maladjusted to each other.

This is because marriage is a union between two opposite $ex, who have different temperaments and coming from different backgrounds.

As such, it takes an adequate adjustment to each other to enjoy their marriage. 

In other words, it is pertinent that they are well adjusted to each other if they are to enjoy their marriage.

A successful adjustment to each other means that couples understand each other’s temperaments, understand each other likes and dislike, as well as love and trust each other.

Couples should cherish each other very well and should be best of friends. Their $ex life as well is marvelous because each knows when any of them desire $ex and are willing and are ready to satisfy each other $exually at any moment.

You can’t claim to be enjoying sweet marriage when you are struggling and quarreling over the issue of $ex in your marriage. 

There are couples who are engaged in extra-marital affairs, in other words, infidelity. You need to read “Tips to Enjoying sweet and evergreen marriage” for more insights.

To enjoy sweet marriage to the fullness, you need to take drastic steps to ensure that the following are in place:

First, both of you should take time and effort to study your spouse, know his or her temperament, his or her likes, and dislike.

However, you need to know your own temperament before you think of knowing the temperament of your spouse.

 Secondly, you should know the strength of your love and trust for each other. Is the strength of your love and trust for each other strong or weak?

You should take steps and as well as make effort to ensure that your love and trust for each other is growing day by day.

Moreover, be conscious or careful not to betray the love and trust your spouse have for you. Most cracks in a marriage started when one of the spouses feel betrayed.

Thirdly, you should ensure that you are living up to your responsibilities in marriage. 

If there is any reason why you may not be able to meet up with your marriage responsibilities, diplomatically let your spouse know.

Fourthly, I wish to point out to you that enjoying sweet marriage does not entail the absence of quarrels and conflicts.

In fact, we should realize that it is in the process of conflict management that proper adjustments are achieved IE we get adjusted adequately to each other.

Lastly, you should try to avoid the interference of a third party in your marriage. 

Never borrow what is happening with couples already enjoying sweet and exciting marriage and try to enforce it in your own marriage.

You should allow the love and trust for each other to grow. When the love and trust for each other grow to a formidable force, it will withstand any obstacle that may come in between.

To your marital success and welcome to sweet marriage, I rest my Biro; stay focused and committed to your marriage. Please, we welcome your comment.

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