The position we are today in our society and in our marital relationship, we are placed there by the level of knowledge and understanding we have. No wonder Apostle Paul in 1st Corinthians chapter 14:20 admonished, “Brethren, be not children in understanding: howbeit in malice be ye children, but in understanding be men”. KJV In other words, if we really wish to excel in every area of life endeavors, then we must as a necessity go for knowledge and understanding. The more we have the understanding on any issue, the more we will excel on that issue. Also the book of proverbs chapter 13 verses 15 “Good understanding gains favor, but the way of the unfaithful is hard”.NKJV
For Gentlemen Only
This is the second part of the series “To Fulfill Marital Destiny, Don’t Be Afraid To Get Married part 2, I hope you have read part one? If not you need to read part one for a better understanding of this topic. In part one, TO READ PART ONE, GO HERE: I pointed out in part one that one of the reasons why some men refuse to get married is fear, fear of the unknown of the future. Moreover, men who came from broken homes or homes where there are constant quarrels, in fighting or other marital anomalies seems to have this fear inbuilt from their childhood. They grew up thinking and believing that women are generally bad and tend to scare…
If you look around the world over, you will see many overgrown bachelors, men who are over 40 years of age. Many of these men are handsome or even wealthy, yet they are still single and refuse to marry, as such, some find it difficult to fulfill their marital destiny. I met one such man sometimes ago that was over 40 years old and when I probed into the reason why he was still single at the age of over 40. Initially he answered that there was nothing wrong with him, when I showered him my website and my articles on marriage he opened up and told me “Man I Am Scared, Am Afraid To Get Married”. Of a truth,…
As a married man, how has your marriage fared over the past years? Are you enjoying a stress-free marriage? Is your marriage dragging, boring or exciting? Whatever be the case or situation currently about your marriage, you can turn that marriage around or improve on it. If your marriage is not successful, if your marriage is boring and not exciting, I am bold to say that you are responsible and partly to blame. The reason is that you are not applying correctly the principles that make for exciting marriage. In another way round, the marriage principles you are applying may be wrong and it may soon crash your marriage if you don’t change them.
Whenever there are crises in marriages, couples are quick to point accusing fingers on the man or woman. Some regard their marriage to that man or woman as a mistake. A lady whose husband has turned to a punching bag recently was shading tears saying, “If I know Mark was like that I won’t have married him”. So my lady, to avoid shading tears like that lady above, there are certain or major qualities you must consider in accepting the hands of a man in marriage. These qualities are for ladies who have choices of who to marry. This is because some ladies have no choice as they do grab any man that comes their way for marriage.